Last Updated on January 29, 2018 by Douglas C. Goldberg, MD
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Introduction
Men and women are two topics ancient as the world is. So many things make them live together, love each other and believe they will be together till the end of the ages. But there are so many troubles met during this life which may destroy the family’s love, peace and harmony. One of such stumbling blocks is erectile dysfunction. It happens suddenly and destroys the regular, habitual way of living.
What should the couple do in such a way? Women are sometimes so intolerance to such problems because they do not have a pretty good idea how they should behave themselves.
Advises
The main idea of this article is how to talk about the erectile dysfunction with your partner because it may hurt and embarrass him. Only the realization of the erectile dysfunction emergence may make them panic, disappointed and frustrated simultaneously.
Wives should become partners not screws with this question!
First of all you should yourself grapple with this question. You are to know as much as possible to have a clue about what you are going to talk and what you should say to him to support and find the way out. Nowadays there are so much information in the Internet medical journals, blogs, news websites. It is up to you to become an expert in this sphere, of course, it is not so pleasant but you are together to solve this problem.
The second tip is to find the right moment to speak about this occasion. In no circumstances you shouldn’t talk about it directly after the failure. It kills him because he is so ashamed in such a way you hurt him more. You may and should wait for a moment to speak to him being sure he is under a good emotional and physical condition to discuss it.
The third advice is your support. You may yourself help him to overcome this disorder because if you drop him up, he may become depressed and put his hands off. But you should arm yourself with patience. Time, energy and efforts you will need to cope with this problem. But try to realize his disorder is not a consequence of your female unattractive but a physiological process and nothing more. Attempt to find those words not full of regret but of understanding and realization. You should furnish him proofs to make him believe in you and yourself.
The next step is to allow him to understand you have his back and nothing will be changed this situation. Maybe you will suggest him undergoing the medical screening to get to know the exact reason of erectile dysfunction.
The provocative agents are proved to be high cholesterol, high blood pressure, diabetes, heart diseases and testosterone level. Faster you will treat the reason quicker you will overcome sexual problems. It is very important to be attentive to your health, one disease may provoke the other. The main problem is that people do not consult the doctor as it is necessary and recommended. You should persuade him to will be helpful.
The fifth step concerns the fact that erectile dysfunction may be caused by overweight as well. You may suggest him going to the gym together to lose weight and become stronger. Only your participation may become essential in case of this disorder. It will help you to draw your family together.
As you understand you should break for sex for some time but find new occupation which help you to drift together. You may speak more about memories, events you have lived through together, you may go to the cinema to watch and discuss the film further. You should become honest and encouraging with each other to build new sincere contact among you.
But there are cases when erectile dysfunction is caused by psychological factors in such a case it is better to attend the counselor to know more and get rid of this problems.
Medication
And together with all other actions you may suggest him taking Viagra to improve the sexual life. If you are shy and ashamed to buy it in the ordinary drug store you may order them via the Internet. You may get acquainted with such drugs as Sildenafil, Cialis, Levitra and Viagra Force. These drugs serve to prolong the sexual life besides you may buy them without doctor’s prescription. Canadian Health&Care Mall provides its patients with the web drug stores where they may purchase these drugs not to be embarrassed.
Conclusion
If you decide you may achieve the result by your own efforts, try it. Wives should explain husbands they are not alone, you are a couple, you are together and you will cope the problem appearing in the family.
You should realize erectile dysfunction is a natural process of aging but you may control it or fight with it due to the medical technologies gifted to us.
Dr. Douglas Goldberg, MD is a Cardiology Specialist in Mineola, NY. He is affiliated with medical facilities Nyu Winthrop Hospital and Mercy Medical Center.
